Your emotions are flying all over the place. You feel hurt, angry, devastated, bitter, upset and more. These very primal emotions can lead you to do and say things that you may regret later and which will drive your ex further away. You are not thinking rationally.

Do you want your ex back? Do you want to get your ex back? How are you going to get your ex back? Learning how to get your ex back is not some rocket science; it is all possible if you know how! In the article, I have gone through a systematic plan which lays the foundation for you to learn how to get your ex back.

There is no point in trying to get back your ex if things are simply going to return back to the way they were prior to the breakup. Spend some time reflecting on things that not only bothered you about the relationship but that your partner was bothered by as well.

Remain positive and confident that you will win your ex girlfriend back by giving you and your ex some time and space. Let emotions settle especially if your break up was a heated one.

This will accomplish two important things. First, it will show him just how much you do love, respect, and admire him. Since this is something he needs from you above anyone else, it is something that he will truly appreciate knowing.

When you break up with your ex, you may get mad about it. This is not a good way to handle things and you should take some time to think about why you might be mad at them. If it's because you want attention, then you should probably consider not continuing the relationship anyway.

After giving your ex sufficient space you need to start at the relationship all over again. Never be overconfident and think of an approach that will reignite the sparks that were once there. You need to be very careful while deciding the plan as it might be your last chance to win your ex back.