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Call your ex and say something like “Hello, it's me. I just wanted to tell you that I really appreciate what you did for me. When you get the chance, give me a call so I can tell you personaly”. Can you see how this uses curiosity and self interest in one sweep? Your ex can't resist calling you back! “What is it that I did?”, “Appreciates what?”, your ex will think. Also, it's a positive message, so he/she will get in the phone for sure.

What you can do is make her miss you. Why? Because that is an emotion and that's what's gonna get your ex back to you. You're making her feel something for you again.

I agree with the decision to end our relationship, it is likely best for both of us. I have some big decisions of my own to make now. I would appreciate it if you did not contact me during this time. I'll get back in touch when I have thought things through.Now here comes the crunch. If you expect that by not contacting your ex and locking yourself in a room for the duration that your ex will come running back, then the no contact rule will fail for you.

A guy will change his mind about a relationship and begin to feel emotions and a connection with a woman once he realizes that there is more pleasure in being in that relationship and less pain. He left the relationship because there was more pain in the relationship and more pleasure outside of that relationship instead of the other way around. It could have been external sources like another woman that made him feel a certain way. maybe powerful or loved or sexy or strong. and while the problems in your relationship grew the scales tipped and it became easier for him to make that decision to leave the relationship and you.

Giving your ex space and getting your space is very important to win your ex back. Going through a break up would have been equally painful for your ex too. So both of you need your own space. Don't try to keep contacting your ex, you have to realize that they too need time and space to clear things out. Being after them will only make them avoid you.

Like most men and women, you are likely anxious to lift up the telephone and call your partner right now. Doing so is absolutely OK if you want the split up to be lasting. Even so, if you want your partner back, DO NOT CALL. There is a reason why the relationship ended, just back off and come to terms with that (for now).

Many times, this state of not knowing is enough to bring them back but at the very least it serves as a reminder that they gave up on something that for a while was very important in their life. Your absence also sends a message of strength to your ex that you can carry on with your life with or without them. Finally, giving your ex some space will allow you get your mind right which happens to be the next rule.

Do you know how to rekindle the fire that was there at the beginning of the relationship? If you don't or you do the wrong thing you can kiss your relationship goodbye forever.

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ebound_elationship_-_how_you_can_use_it_to_you_advantage.txt · Zadnja izmjena: 2017/02/12 10:57 od rodolfodonohoe